Interdependence: Why Community Matters and how to build it
If you’ve ever felt the tension between longing for closeness with others and the fear of being seen as dependent, you’re not alone. Our dominant culture promotes the harmful narrative of ableism, which not only hurts disabled people but also hurts everyone by keeping us isolated and overburdened.
The “Always, Forever, & Never” Maze: How Anxious Attachment Undermines Security & Turns Love into a Test of Endurance
In this blog post I am offering you a very useful tool that I developed to aid myself and my clients in tracking reflexive reactions and transforming them-in real time-by redirecting yourself away from Always, Forever, and Never. Read below to learn more about our superpowers as anxious attachers and how to rewire your critical approach. The pot of gold at the end of the rainbow is real and attainable. I have learned how to enjoy the fruits of my relational labor and ease into that coveted sense of security. And you can too.